SELF
EVALUATION OF SOCIAL SKILLS II
21.
It is easy for me to give compliments to people that I hardly know.
22.
When my superiors ask me to do things that I am not obliged to do,
I am incapable of saying "no".
23.
I find it difficult to make new friends.
24.
If one of my friends betrays my confidence I clearly tell them how
I feel.
25.
I show my parents affection.
26.
It is difficult for me to compliment someone who is superior to me.
27.
If I were in a small seminar or meeting and the person that is directing
the event made a statement which I considered to be incorrect, I would
give my point of view.
28.
If I want to break up with my partner, I tell him/her clearly.
29.
I am capable of showing negative feelings towards strangers if I am
offended.
30.
If I am served food that I don't like in a restaurant, I complain
to the waiter.
31.
I find it difficult to talk to an attractive person that I am sexually
attracted towards and that I hardly know.
32.
When I meet someone that I like, I ask him/her for his/her phone number
so we can meet again.
33.
If I am angry with my parents I let them know.
34.
I express my point of view even if it is unpopular.
35.
If someone has spoken badly about me, or they have made up information
about me, I immediatley look for them in order to correct them.
36.
I find it difficult to start a conversation with a stranger.
37.
I am incapable of defending my rights infront of my superiors.
38.
If a figure of authority criticizes me without justification, I find
it difficult to discuss what they have said openly.
39.
If a member of the opposite sex criticizes me unjustly, I ask him/her
for clear explanations.
40.
I am too shy to ask people out on dates.
41.
I find it easy to approach and start a conversation with a superior.
42.
I usually do what the rest want to do and I don't do what I really
want to do.
43.
When I meet new people I don't have a lot to say.
44.
I turn a blind eye when someone jumps the queue in front of me.
45.
I am unable to tell someone that I like them.
46.
I find it difficult to criticize others even when it is justified.
47.
I don't know what to say to attractive members of the opposite sex.
48.
If I realise that I am falling in love with the person that I am going
out with, I express my feelings to that person.
49.
If a family member criticises me unjustly, I express my feelings spontaneously
and easily.
50.
I find it easy to accept compliments.
51.
I laugh at jokes that offend me instead of sticking up for myself
and speaking out.
52.
When somebody praises me I don't know how to respond.
53.
I am incapable of talking in public.
54.
I am incapable of showing affection to a member of the opposite sex.
55.
In the relationship with my partner, it is him/her that carries out
most of the conversations.
56.
I avoid asking someone superior for something.
57.
If a close and respected relative is pestering me, I would let them
know how I felt.
58.
When a shop assistant attends someone who is behind me in the queue,
I let them know about it.
59.
I find it difficult to compliment or praise a member of the opposite
sex.
60.
When I am in a group, I have problems finding topics to talk about.
61.
It is difficult for me to show affection in public.
62.
If a person that I am attracted to, who I have been trying to meet,
stops me when I am on my way out of the house and asks me the time,
I take the initiative to start up a conversation with her.
63.
I am a shy person.
64.
It is easy for me to show my anger when someone does something that
annoys me.
