Lesson 14º

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Values

Our values determine how we think. Everyone has different values and their own opinion of what is good and what is bad.

Having a firm system of values helps to make decisions basing things on facts and not on external pressures. Coherent behaviour is impregnated by a person’s values.

Values strengthen the success of specific goals. Without direction energy is dispersed and it weakens the intention and reach. Become aware, have great consistency with what you think, believe, feel and act. This is a process that requires the development of self-knowledge and personal control.

Knowing your values can help you to: identify and question the aspects of everyday life and the current social rules. You can build more equal ways of life not only in the interpersonal fields but also in the collective fields. You can elaborate an autonomous and rational communication with yourself, discover general principles that help you establish justice on the reality. You can motivate youths so that they choose a consistent behaviour with the principles and rules that they have personally incorporated.

Values create a deep commitment in the individual in front of the group he belongs to and in front of society.

Once suitable for society, there are values that persist by the historic consensus.

It is incorrect to say that some people don’t have values. They simply give them a different ranking order.

Ranking values is not easy; first you have to think about which ones are desire, goals and needs to satisfy and reach – then you have to choose them as a guide. Ranking values varies according to the stage of human development. For example, for an adult, life, health, family and work are very important, whilst a youth would give more importance to friendship, school, fun times and being attractive for the opposite sex.

Speaking about values is like talking about education. With the aim of not entering into moral controversies. It is important to point out that amongst the theme of responsibility is the moderation of alcohol consumption. The most important value is the looking after your health.